The unknown: stepping into the unknown is how you come to know things. I think the problem comes when someone else holds the cards and you can’t have them, their cards are going to either throw you into the abyss or keep you afloat. It’s a source of intense worry, more so when they’ve shown others their cards and they give you little hints, but you’re still so unsure, it’s like standing in quicksand that moves just slow enough that you’re getting ever anxious but fast enough that you can’t move. I know I’ll never give anyone any cards ever again. But all I want is honesty and communication, not game playing and whispers. Constantly threatening something makes anyone feel insecure, but it also makes the condition unworkable.